Hello to all single gentlemen and bachelors! Is this question sounds familiar?
Kapag nagkakaroon ng get together ang barkada or sa isang high school reunion, special occasions like birthday party and wedding, madalas may nagtatanong sa akin na “May girlfriend ka na?”
Kung lalaki ang nagtatanong, posible na isa sa mga ito ang naiisip natin:
Kung babae naman ang nagtatanong, baka isa sa mga ito ang ating naiisip:
Nagkaroon ako ng girlfriend few years ago. Fourth year high school ako that time. Of course di yun alam ng parents ko. Later na lang nila nalaman, mga after several years. Muntik ko na siyang maging kamag-anak. We have a common lolo and lola. Pero di talaga kami mag kamag-anak. I am happy to be with her but we (we? or ako lang talaga?hehe) had to stop our relationship. We (should I say “I”?hehe) broke up during our first monthsary. I had to focus with my study that time. I was a candidate for valedictorian and I had many competitions and quiz bees to attend to. Well, I don’t want to explain more. Let’s focus on the NOW.
I just want to post these questions that every single man should somehow think about:
Madalas may mga single men na may responsibilidad sa kanyang family. Pag-aralin ang mga kapatid, tumulong sa financial matters sa bahay, isecure ang retirement ng parents. Yung iba kelangan munang magkaroon ng stable na job. Yung iba nagpaplan pa lang nag mag-business. Pero ano ang game plan mu?
Baka naman kasi pressured ka lang (gusto na ng parents mu na magka-apo or lahat ng kaklase mu nung high school may asawa na, ikaw na lang naiwan). Baka naman hype lang ng emotions yan (sobrang kapapanood ng mga telenovela).
Well, as for me, when I think about entering a relationship, I am looking forward for a marriage. Of course, dadarating din naman kayo ng girlfriend mu sa ganung stage pero as a man you should be thinking ahead. Mag-ipon!hehe
If buhay pa ang parents mu at close naman kayo, ideal na sila ang mentor mu sa mga usaping ganyan. Find people you can trust and you know that they have knowledge, wisdom and experiences about relationship.
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Minsan, bongga din kapag single! haha! I remember one of my blog entries about being single when I read this. Masaya ang single kasi MASABAW. LOL. Very nice Dr.Eamer!
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So hindi ka na single ngayon? Share your stories naman! 😉
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Iba-iba ng dahilan ang tao kung bakit sila single. Para sa akin, there’s more to life than being in a relationship 🙂
Cheers to singlehood! lol
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Cheers to singlehood!lol! 🙂 Para sa tagumpay!hehe
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Hindi ko alam pero SAKTO! same faith bro haha 4th year hs. di alam ng parents, lols the game plan. hahaha
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Hi Ian! asan na yung girlfriend mu nung fourth year ka? As for me, di ko din alam.lol! Friends naman kami sa FB.hahaha Keep up the game plan bro. 🙂
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Naks kuya! Enjoy wordpressing. Eh ikaw me girlfriend ka na?!
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Yup meron na. Ako pa.lol! 🙂 Anu yung girlfriend? Wait, igoogle ko muna.hahaha Hi Yana! 🙂 yeah, wordpressing!hehe
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Hahahahaha!!! Go kuya! Naku kuya, google google din pag may time. lols
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ayos ka bro ah. blog galore 😀 aja! 🙂
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Hi Ms. Lisha 🙂 Blog blog din pag may time.hehe Miss u te! 🙂
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