Doctor Eamer

PAG-IBIG ATBP.

What is the ideal age to get married?

1. For you, what is the ideal age to get married?

There’s no ideal age for me. It varies from person to person. Depende sa maturity, financial stability, emotional preparedness, and faith in God.

So kung ako ang tatanungin, as long as you are matured, financially stable (kahit papaano ay may work naman), emotionally prepared, at strong ang paniniwalang si God naman ang gagabay sa married life… then by all means, marry! Numerically speaking,  28-30 for men ang recommendation ko.

Follow-up: Gaano kalapit ka na sa ideal age mo? Haha.

2-4 years pa.

2. Wala bang pressure sa guys to get married, like what is prevalent sa girls? (i.e. Dapat by age xx, kasal na ako.)

May pressure din naman. Like yung mga barkada ko noong highschool, lahat may asawa na, may anak na.. tapos ako single.

Mas may pressure kapag nag-asawa na actually. Pressure to provide for the family financially.

3. For what reasons does a guy choose to stay single (either no girlfriends since birth or hindi na muna nag-pursue ng babae after a break up)?

a. Pangarap – baka madami pa siyang gustong gawin sa buhay niya.

b. Pamilya – baka madami pang obligasyon sa pamilya. Magpaaral o magprovide financially sa gastusin sa bahay.

c. Standards – siguro may hinahanap talaga siyang girl na hindi pa niya nakikita or natatagpuan.

d. Hope – still hoping na magbabalikan pa sila ni ex (para ito doon sa mga galing sa break up).

4. Describe your ideal life partner.

Proverbs 31 woman.

5. When a guys says, “Let’s be friends,” after breaking up with the girl, ano bang ineexpect niya from her? Does he really mean friends-friends, or dyan-ka-lang-pero-wag-ka-umasang-magkakabalikan-tayo friends?

It’s a way of saying to the girl na I want a good closure. It’s not necessary na kaibigan na updated pa din sa buhay ng bawat isa. Casual friends lang in such a way na kapag nagkasalubong tayo sa daan, may pansinan at smiles po din sana. Kaibigan na kapag tinanong ka ng mga colleagues and friends na .. “Uy kilala mo ba si ____?” Mas gusto ng mga guy na sasabihin mong… “Ah yep, he is a friend of mine.” rather than “Ahhh, he’s my ex.” or “Ah kakilala ko lang.”When we say “Let’s be friends”… we want to detach from you as good way as possible. Dahil kung gugustuhin man naming maging close friend tayo, we won’t say it.. but you will see it on our actions. (Madalas na pangangamusta.. etc)

Maraming salamat kay Mr. Anonymous para sa Chat Interview na ito. 😉

Abangan sa buwan ng Setyembre ang ang Chat Interview Series na patungkol sa Long Distance Relationships (LDR). Madami na ang nagpa-interview pero need ko pa ng mga dalawa o tatlong interviewees. Drop me a message if you want to be interviewed.

I hope you learn something from this Chat Interview Series. Kaya kung gusto mong magpainterview, send me an email at iamdoctoreamer@gmail.com.

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This entry was posted on August 14, 2016 by in Love & Relationship.
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