Doctor Eamer


If I Were a Girl I Would Look for this Kind of Guy


Someone asked at with a similar question related to this. So to answer that question, let me share you what is my ideal guy If I were a girl:

1. Strong-Willed
Simply saying, I prefer a decisive man. If a guy likes me then I suggest he must make an effort to know me and later on pursue me. I don’t want a guy who is double minded. I’m not saying that he should be haphazard in thinking and making decisions. But when he decides, let it be a firm decision. Else, his heart will easily sway if ever he will meet someone better than me. Relationship is not like a game app that he can easily reset, stop or uninstall when he wanted to.

2. Family-Oriented
I don’t want a guy who shows no concern with his family such as his parents and siblings. If he can do that with his own “blood” then he could also do it to me. If he wants a happy family, he should start with his own personal family. If he has a conflict with someone in his family, let him resolve it. It’s the best time for him to make an effort and reconcile and say sorry. Real guy must like “drama” sometimes πŸ˜‰


4. Bedroom-Lover
Sorry for this term but this is not about sex! This term is just for the rule of parallelism. I want a guy who loves to clean his bedroom. People spent six to eight hours in their bedroom to rest and sleep. I don’t like a guy whose bedroom is like a garage sale.

5. Vices-Free
Guys have their own reasons why they smoke or drink alcohols. But if I were a girl, it is a no no thing! Find other girl who could tolerate that! Having an affair with other girl is also a form of vice. If he can defend his vices in cigarettes and alcohols, then for sure he can defend those kind of affairs with other girls! Sorry for him, we are not meant to be. Simply, I don’t like him. Period. That’s why there are lots of broken marriages because of this kind of vices. So let him choose! Me or his vices.

6. Money-Manager
If he cannot manage his 1,000 pesos then how can he manage a family! Most of the time, money issues are the main reason why a couple fight. So it is better that he will learn to manage his money wisely while he is still single. If he wants to date me, his money must not come from his parents but from his own earnings!

7. God-Fearing
Most of the criminals, it’s either they don’t believe in God or they don’t fear God. If we will have a fight over a certain issue, then he could do something bad to me if he lost temper. Well, that was an exaggeration but I hope you get my point. πŸ™‚ Β So before I will say “yes” to him, I’ll check his “religious” background first. If he would ask me for a date, I would prefer that he brings me to the church where he is attending. With this, I will know if he is really passionate in serving God. πŸ™‚

Number three is intentionally left blank. I want to hear from you. If you’ll be the one to complete this list, what will you put there? Make it parallel!lol! πŸ™‚

PS: As a guy, I’m still working on all the items listed especially in number 4. πŸ™‚ You can ask me questions at

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9 comments on “If I Were a Girl I Would Look for this Kind of Guy

  1. Mia
    December 9, 2014

    I’m a girl and I’d like to add to the list yung good sense of humor talaga kasi important quality yun when times get tough. Maganda yung may reason pa rin para tumawa para at least di masyadong ramdam yung bigat ng problema. Also, importante din yung loyal na guy at love ako talaga in full kasi pag dumating na yung time na mag-change na yung hitsura ko over time (tataba, magkaka-wrinkles, etc.) yung commitment nya is as strong as ever compared nung sa simula.

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  2. Fe Zapanta
    December 8, 2014

    My number 3 would be: He treats you with respect and has sense of humor and a great listener too . πŸ™‚


  3. melancholicbutterfly
    December 5, 2014

    3. Good Listener

    Liked by 1 person

    • Doctor Eamer
      December 6, 2014

      So di na pala pwede ang mga deaf people? πŸ™‚ hehe Agree agree! Yep goog-listener πŸ™‚

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  4. belovedreg
    December 5, 2014

    Reblogged this on Beloved Reg.


  5. Pinay Unlimited
    December 5, 2014

    Hmmm for me, I will also look for someone who has passion for learning. ‘Cause for me “intellectual intercourse” is more important than the other you know. Of course you would want someone who is in love with your mind and he’s in love with yours also. It’s so alluring and beautiful and interesting and fascinating and exciting. πŸ™‚

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    • Doctor Eamer
      December 5, 2014

      so your #3 is Intellectually-Gifted? hehe πŸ™‚


      • Pinay Unlimited
        December 5, 2014

        Yep! πŸ™‚

        Pero mali mali pala pinagsasabi ko sa “Of course you would want someone who is in love with your mind and he’s in love with yours also.” Puwede ba ma-edit yun? Hahaha.

        It should be- Of course you would want someone who is in love with your mind and vice versa. πŸ˜‰

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